Johnnywriter

One of my biggest regrets was waiting too long to believe in myself. There were moments in my life when I doubted my abilities and delayed taking opportunities because I felt I wasn’t ready. I allowed fear of failure and...

Omo this one thing broke me like crazy

What are the things to do in a relationship to make it fun

Every writer I admire has a story about the moment their writing found itself. Became distinctly theirs. Sometimes it is a line they wrote. Sometimes it is a sentence they read that showed them what was possible. For m...

His name is David. He is a mechanic in Surulere. He fixes cars all day, comes home smelling like engine oil, and laughs too loudly at his own jokes. My parents took one look at him and delivered their verdict: "That man...

Nigeria is so often framed through its problems — and those problems are real and deserve serious attention. But I want to collect something different today. Tell me the moment you did not expect. The view that stopped...

I just want to know if couples can stay honest and truthful to each other without any form of pretense Common Causes of Work Stress Excessive workload and tight deadlines Lack of control over work decisions Unclear...

I was at the Third Mainland Bridge at 2am. I will not say why. If you have ever stood somewhere quiet and felt the world would continue without noticing your absence, you may understand. A security guard appeared. He wa...

Ambition is celebrated publicly. The grind. The hustle. The success story. People love the destination narrative. What I almost never hear about is the hidden invoice. The relationships you sacrificed. The health you i...

January 1st, I made a promise: write one page every single day for a year. Not publish. Not perform. Just write. The first month was easy. I had backlogs of ideas stored up like clothes in an overfilled wardrobe. Month...

Friendships ending is one of the most confusing grief experiences I know — because unlike romantic relationships, there is rarely a clear moment. No breakup conversation. No defined ending. Just a slow cooling. And then...

Everyone says you do not need to code anymore. Drag-and-drop. No-code tools. AI does the heavy lifting. I decided to test that claim. I had an idea: a simple app that matched Lagos street food vendors with nearby custom...

Genuinely want a debate on this. On one hand: access to information has never been greater. A person in a rural area in Nigeria with a smartphone has access to the same knowledge as someone at Oxford. That is extraordin...

I have failed fifteen job interviews. I kept a list — dates, companies, the exact feedback they gave. "Not the right culture fit." "We went with a stronger candidate." The rejection always stung. Interview number sixtee...

The challenge started because I lost a bet. My friend Tunde said I could not go one week without checking Instagram. I said I could do 30 days. We bet N10,000. Day one was physical. I kept picking up my phone and openin...